I Don’t Like Him….But How Do I Tell Him?

I’m not crazy y’all.  Ok maybe I am a little, because only a crazy woman would not like a good man right?  Well guess what, that’s me right now.  I usually don’t have a hard time telling a guy I’m not interested but I find it hard to tell this guy that.  I guess mostly because it’s due to a physically attribute.  Anyway, so there is, what I would call, a good man that is interested in me and chile let me tell you how I DO NOT like him.   And to be honest it has nothing to do with him making a small amount of money, whether or not he takes care of his kids, OR how he treats me.  Nah, its nothing like that.  It has everything to do with the fact that I’m not physically/sexually attracted to him.  Let me reiterate what I mean by this.

Physically he is a very fit man. So his body type is not a problem at all.  But his face region is not the most appealing.  And I’m not talking about a little funny looking “cute”.  He’s just not handsome.  And trust me I have some nerve because both guys I have children by are not exactly handsome either.  However, a woman can glow up and change the things she wants from a man right? Don’t judge me. We are talking about him right now. LOL!

Now let’s talk about how I have tried to think about having sex with this guy and almost threw up in my mouth.  LOL!  Not that we have even talked about having sex, that’s not the case AT ALL.  I do this with all guys that approach me and are interested in dating me.  I meet them, watch their mannerisms and imagine what it would be like to have sex with him.  LOL!  And this is usually within about 15 minutes of meeting them. (Pervert shit I know, but I’m keepin it real)  I also picture them naked if they are a little pudgy.  But we will talk about why I do that later.    Furthermore, see that’s what I’m talking about.  I can’t overlook the fact that I up-chuck a little every time I think about him touching me.  That’s not normal and CANNOT be over looked.   I’m sorry.

The moral to this post is.  I’m not sacrificing my requirement of a man being handsome and having sex appeal.   Because to keep it real, without those things I won’t be able to allow him to enjoy me and that’s not fair to him.  He deserves a woman that will like him for the person he is.  And that’s just not me.

So I’m asking you all for your help.  How do I tell him I don’t like him without ruining him for the next woman?  Comment below or email me at relationshipsnw@gmail.com and let me know what I can do.

Until next time loves,





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